tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-562044559235092431.post8621309173028103850..comments2024-03-06T18:35:25.918+08:00Comments on Raphael: Vocabulary of Love: Words That Don't Belong ThereRaphael Kokhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01245637321429196852noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-562044559235092431.post-22798453896555120232023-09-09T23:33:42.231+08:002023-09-09T23:33:42.231+08:00Mind blowing blog it is.
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I like to think so.Raphael Kokhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01245637321429196852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-562044559235092431.post-34774704743843052092015-05-11T20:48:29.287+08:002015-05-11T20:48:29.287+08:00You know, I went from this:- https://www.facebook....You know, I went from this:- https://www.facebook.com/notes/sha-lyn-xash/love/10151062690895901<br /><br />Now my answer is simply that love is a transfer of a part, or all of a soul from one being to another. <br /><br />You could be in love a million times for and overlapping, for so long as you have soul left, and all would be as significant as the other. xashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08881027827986156060noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-562044559235092431.post-2678296721991814912014-05-07T09:16:11.681+08:002014-05-07T09:16:11.681+08:00What you say is true. We do think the same way, de...What you say is true. We do think the same way, despite our different priorities in life. It all boils down to choice. And all choices are investments - time, money, energy. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Even if you make a gain from an investment, the next question is whether more could have been gained from investing elsewhere (economic loss).<br /><br />Instead of writing these articles, which eats up a few hours of my life each week, I could have used those hours to spend more time with family and friends or focus on my career. But I made a conscious decision not to. It's my choice, and I'm happy with it. I enjoy inspiring and influencing people. I'm still hoping I could do more of it, and cut down less on other materialistic distractions in life.<br /><br />I can't say that you're a wrong to 'settle down', as much as you can't say I'm wrong not to. And it's because we've thought about our choices through, long and hard. My gripe against people is how they unthinkingly make choices - equating love with 'settling down' being one of them.<br /><br />But I need to correct you on something - 'settle down' is the wrong word to explain the choice you made. Building a family - that's the choice you made. It's not just a matter of semantics - it's about seeing things in a positive light ('building'), as opposed to the negative ('settle down').Raphael Kokhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01245637321429196852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-562044559235092431.post-10418641806765750052014-05-05T11:07:38.941+08:002014-05-05T11:07:38.941+08:00I was once thought that why should I scarifice my ...I was once thought that why should I scarifice my personal joy in a "settle down" relationship. it is so lame. boring to follow the trend out there, settle down, married, having kids, work 24/7 for company, family, his and my family by playing the roles as good employee, perfect mum, pretty wife, wonderful daughter and daughter-in-law etc..argh....being a woman is just so tough luck. <br />These perception totally changed when I constatntly making routine calls to my single father living away from me alone at my home town, telling him interesting incidents that made him laugh over it or making endless complaints at least to a willing and paying full attention listener like him. Soon I realised, settle down or raising a family is like a personal retirement investiment. Most of my friends around me were so busy with their families and don't really have time for me. But at least when I grow old and living in a dry life wrose in a lonely life, there will be someone like me now calling me and tell me all sort of things that make me laugh, feel exciting and hopeful that someone out there remembering me and may be someone to look for when I need them. Of course, there will be no guarantee based on today's demanding life style but it all boil down to how I manage the investment (my teaching and coaching on my kid-if any) so that it will be a fruitful or meaningful investment. Maybe someone may say i should invest in the real profitable investments like properties, shares etc that will bring me real money to do whatever I want at the later life. But, won't it be better if this joy is share with someone that will accompany me to do the things I like such as travel with me while taking care me? Occasionally, my lonely house may be full of laughter, kids running around and telling me things out there when I am not fast enough to catch up all the latest news, trends, technologies, social life. Hey, think about that, I still can have party like in my house at my old age. Ain't all these also a kind of "personal joy" at a different stage? Just like any other investments, it needs time and money. Being a woman, I knew I have many roles to play and it will be very hard for me but I believe is all about setting a personal time table and making deals with partner on achieving win-win goals for all parties. It's just like recent business deal trend, if you may like to equate. Or just like when negotiating a contract, when you propose a mutually beneficial term, is not so reasonable for your counter party to refuse to accept. Always find time for what I like and making time for my personal investment will do me just fine. cheers broAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00374373911343159733noreply@blogger.com